11 year NHL veteran Dan Carcillo is defending CTV's The Social host Jess Allen and her comments regarding hockey players earlier this week. In a lengthy rant on Twitter, the former enforcer called hockey culture "toxic", adding his own kids won't be going anywhere near a rink until the culture changes.
Allen was the subject of much backlash on social media after stating that her experience with hockey players led her to believe they were all "white boys", "bullies" and "not very nice." She also stated hockey was only open to the affluent, something Carcillo agrees with.
"Allen is right about it being a sport for privileged, predominantly white boys," Carcillo stated. "You are privileged if you can spend north of $10,000 to register for hockey. She is right about the type of men that are drawn to the sport. I was one of those men."
"I worshiped at the alter of hockey. I perked up when Don Cherry said things like “listen up kids” when he described violence in hockey and what being a real man looks like. And I listened," Carcillo added. "When I was abused as a minor at the hands of coaches and teammates, I shut up and moved on because ,well, that's what a real man does. I also became the bully. I became a person in the hockey world that I can't recognize today and I never want to be again."
Carcillo retired from the NHL in 2015 and has since been very outspoken about the type of career he had. He has admitted to battling alcohol and substance abuse problems throughout his professional career, and formed the "Chapter 5 Foundation' after his retirement, which is dedicated to helping players who are struggling with post-concussion syndrome, anxiety, or depression.
He ended his lengthy Twitter message by saying "let's fix the fear based learning and negative talk that most coaches spew towards players to motivate them. We get so much more energy from positive thoughts and words, rather than the negative notions that are drilled into us from early ages."
I worshipped at the alter of hockey. I perked up when Don Cherry said things like “listen up kids” when he described violence in hockey & what being a real man looks like...And I listened. When I was abused as a minor at the hands of coaches & teammates, I shut up & moved on...— Daniel Carcillo (@CarBombBoom13) November 14, 2019
2/ ...bc, well, that's what a real man does. I also became the bully. I became a person in the hockey world that I can't recognize today & I never want to be again. The hockey world is small & Jess Allen is right about it being a sport for privileged, predominantly white boys— Daniel Carcillo (@CarBombBoom13) November 14, 2019
3/ ...you are privileged if you can spend north of $10,000 to register for hockey. She is right about the type of men that are drawn to the sport. I was one of those men. She stated “in her own experience” before describing what she believes her experience with hockey to mean.— Daniel Carcillo (@CarBombBoom13) November 14, 2019
4/ ....I've said it before, in my experience, hockey culture is toxic. My kids will not being going near a hockey rink until there is some tangible proof that the culture is changing. The removal of Don Cherry & his subconscious messaging influencing children is a good start.— Daniel Carcillo (@CarBombBoom13) November 14, 2019
5/ Now let's fix the fear based learning & negative talk that most coaches spew towards players to motivate them. We get so much more energy from positive thoughts & words, rather than the negative notions that are drilled into us from early ages— Daniel Carcillo (@CarBombBoom13) November 14, 2019
6/ The sport of hockey is an amazing game. It is not religion, nor should it be treated that way. Jess Allen's & my views of hockey may not be 100% right & fit the perfect mold some of you have in your head of this sport/community, but they are honest takes, in our own experience— Daniel Carcillo (@CarBombBoom13) November 14, 2019










